Difficult Emotion Process

My booster station and her boyfriend broke up months ago and I likewise got touch with the break-up because Ive in like manner ferment friends with the ex-boyfriend. My friend has started to see new(prenominal) goofb onlys and the ex-boyfriend is seeing opposite daughters alike. The thing is, the ex-boyfriend, although he is dating with new(prenominal) girls, isnt over my friend still and he is using me as his couplet to his ex-girlfriend. That is fine with me. My role would be to modify the ex-boyfriend with how the girl is doing.As a friend, I had become a confidante of the girl and she would tell me whole so I exist that the girl is re entirelyy over her ex-boyfriend and has started to like the fudge fun he met in one of her chemical science class. Then, world a friend of the ex-boyfriend, I be restore learned that he forever deems of my friend and still hoping that they could come to expiation and eventually get back together. I opinion that the ex-boyfri end should know that there wint be a routine chance between them. I make water already given him the idea and then, he cherished me to tell everything or so what I know of his ex and the current of his ex.I did and this do him confront the ex-girlfriend. Now, my friend is upset at me. Part of me tangle guilty and the other makes me pretend that I shouldnt for I am just being a friend to both of them. 2. Ive thought intimately our friendship and I mat up horrible of how it is right now. I felt its shouldnt how friendships should end and Ive thought friendships shouldnt be done for(p) like that. Being in the uniform school, we can avoid passing to each one(prenominal) other but we cant avoid seeing each other. On our free succession, I asked her if she wanted to lecture and she utter yes.Maybe, she felt the same as I did and possibly, she also wanted to whistle about it. I think she misses me too I told her that I regret not having to explain to her right away and t hat we cease not talk to each other. I explained to her that I felt guilty about having to disclose her dating with another guy to her ex-boyfriend, but, I think as a friend to her ex, I should overhaul him bleed on and by telling him about her new guy this would make him think. I also told her that I think she should also tell this to his ex so the ex could start moving on.I said that when she got upset, I also felt the same towards her because I couldnt understand why she would whole step like that and I couldnt catnap thinking of what she is thinking about me. I said that I also had flash thoughts of telling it all to the ex. I also told her that I felt I do not deserve the cold word Ive been receiving from her for days because I think I did the right thing to help the ex and that will not do her any harm and that there is no point of keeping the dating in secret from her ex.And if she felt that Im not supposed to befriend the ex, it isnt right. I told her that I wanted t o get things back the way it was before all those things happened. 3. Ive had confrontations before and every time it is so difficult to go through. I watched her reactions and I saw that she is also saddened. She was earreach intently. When it came to the part where I told her of how I do not deserve her kind of treatment, she cover her face and started to cry, but she kept on listening. I think I did all the talking at our conversation.She was so quiet. It was in reality awkward. I thought, at that moment, I was bother her. Just to end the silence, I asked her if she wanted to buy a soda. She turned to me and said she missed me. I dont know if things between us is sincerely okay right now, but maybe it would. I hope it would. Maybe later we could give fixing things. I think whats important is that we start talking to each other again. Later, I would try to talk her through trusting each other again. 4. The skill was useful, although I wasnt perfectly sure if I followed it al l.But it reminded me of some(prenominal) points that would help me and it did help me. The timing was perfect, I wasnt telling any non-sense that could have hurt her more. I think it helped me make my friend understand how I felt. I was so cautious with my course and because I know her well, I know which words could hurt her and which wont and how I should tell her. I just know how she would take things based on how it is being delivered to her. I didnt get lots response from her at that time, but, later, shell talk.